Dolores Aguilar
Dolores Aguilar, born in 1929 in New Mexico, left us on August 7, 2008. She will be met in the afterlife by her husband, Raymond, her son, Paul Jr., and daughter, Ruby.
She is survived by her daughters Marietta, Mitzi, Stella, Beatrice, Virginia and Ramona, and son Billy; grandchildren, Donnelle, Joe, Mitzie, Maria, Mario, Marty, Tynette, Tania, Leta, Alexandria, Tommy, Billy, Mathew, Raymond, Kenny, Javier, Lisa, Ashlie and Michael; great-grandchildren, Brendan, Joseph, Karissa, Jacob, Delaney, Shawn, Cienna, Bailey, Christian, Andre Jr., Andrea, Keith, Saeed, Nujaymah, Salma, Merissa, Emily, Jayci, Isabella, Samantha and Emily. I apologize if I missed anyone.
Dolores had no hobbies, made no contribution to society and rarely shared a kind word or deed in her life. I speak for the majority of her family when I say her presence will not be missed by many, very few tears will be shed and there will be no lamenting over her passing.
Her family will remember Dolores and amongst ourselves we will remember her in our own way, which were mostly sad and troubling times throughout the years. We may have some fond memories of her and perhaps we will think of those times too. But I truly believe at the end of the day ALL of us will really only miss what we never had, a good and kind mother, grandmother and great-grandmother. I hope she is finally at peace with herself. As for the rest of us left behind, I hope this is the beginning of a time of healing and learning to be a family again.
There will be no service, no prayers and no closure for the family she spent a lifetime tearing apart. We cannot come together in the end to see to it that her grandchildren and great-grandchildren can say their goodbyes. So I say here for all of us, GOOD BYE, MOM.
I’m glad that there are still honest people in the world, and say what they mean instead of standard, meaningless praises and crap.
Not everybody lives in such a way that deserves to be missed, I guess…but at the same time, I think even Hitler had a nicer obituary…
Good things come to those who wait.
Just goes to show you that what you do while you are here matters. Don’t leave behind a crappy legacy like this woman did. Think of all the people she hurt, albeit probably indirectly, but still. I have never understood the wisdom of, “Speak no ill of the dead.” Why not? Some people are just a$$h0les.
i worked in a funeral home for a few years. We got a guy in like that once. People kept calling in to make sure he was really dead and cheering when we told them that he was. The family was so worried about him going to hell that they hired people to pray for him round the clock for a freaken week. I have never seen anything like this before. The guy must have been really bad.
Yeah, that’ll be my aunt. She married a rich asshole and became an asshole herself, but she used to be a great woman, and visits to her house were awesome after she married, but before she grew horns. Luckily, now that we ignore her, she’s smart enough to stay away from us.
It’s not real. Go to legacy.com, look up a search for Dolores Aguilar, and there has never been such an obituary. Besides, they usually wont publish such things. My sister said about my dad that she was sorry that he had to live with his addictions and they emailed her to let her know that it could be offensive.